To All the Boys I’ve Known Before ….

6 August 2009 at 1:57 pm (Funny Things, Life, WTF!?)

I don’t need nor want you to call me, re-add me to BBM, text me or facebook me to see how I am. I don’t need anything to flash across your TV to “remind you of me”. I don’t need you to try and gain access to my facebook page because a status message clearly referred to me in a romantic way. I do not need you to fall over yourself worrying about how I’ve been. I don’t need you to check up on me. If we were real friends, you never would’ve lost touch in the first place.

I dont need nor want ANY of these things so please save it – especially if you are an ex, someone I dated, talked to or fucked. I’d rather be lonely and have NO friends then a bunch of fairweather people that pop in and out of my life when it’s convenient for them. I’m a real woman with real feelings and I am a GOOD friend. I don’t dismiss people for any old reason and I only lose touch with you because YOU made it so. I go out of my way to say hello and how are you to the ppl that mean something to me at the VERY least once a week. However, if I’m the only person doing it and there is nothing reciprocated then why would I continue? And then all of a sudden I get that dreaded message “hey, haven’t heard from you in a bit” .. no, really? Why is that though?

I’m so sick of dudes ALWAYS COMING BACK. And it happens to the point where they ALL come back at ONCE. It never, ever fails. I don’t mean to sound like I’m bragging but the guys from my past ALWAYS come back to me. And, no, for the smart ass people, it’s not always the ex-boyfriends. You’d be surprised at how many guys have tried and failed and thought I was a waste of time because I wouldn’t give it up only to come back on some “lets be friends shit”. It’s annoying. I don’t view real friendships like that. I don’t view people like that.

If you can so easily walk away from someone who you SAY means so much to you, then why would I SO easily allow you back into my life? I’m over it. I’ve BEEN over it.

Food for thought.



  1. goddesspower978 said,

    Beautifully written! Thank you…Love, Goddess

  2. Corprah Lanfrey said,

    and thank you 🙂

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