Archive for May 20th, 2009

20
May
09

I Know She Meant Well But ….

…. why is it so hard for white people to understand that not every black person in Canada is from Jamaica or the Caribbean or Africa? WHY!?

Case in point: a woman in my class approached me today to sign the back of a group picture we had taken last week to commemorate our prof’s birthday. Now, this woman is a nice lady. She really is. Always pleasant and kind, so I don’t want to make it seem like she was being racist, rude or anything because she wasn’t. However, she is definitely ignorant. (I don’t mean that in a derogatory sense. I mean that literally. If you need to look up the word and it’s meaning, do so.)

So she asked my last name for the picture, which I told her, and then she asked me where I’m from. Not a problem, she was asking everyone. Why? I don’t know but I didn’t feel singled out or anything so I told her I’m from here. Here meaning, Canada, Mississauga, Ontario – whatever. She kind of looked at me blankly and was like “No, I mean where were you born – Jamaica?” And I politely smiled my tense, irritated smile (as I’ve been through this before) and replied, “Nooo. Here. Canada.” And again I was given that blank stare. Now, because it was HER and I know she didn’t mean anything by it I started to explain my heritage. My mother’s side of the family are Canadian, most were born and raised most in Nova Scotia. I’m 5th generation Canadian. My father was born in Jamaica and raised in England. Now, while I identify with both my parents’ backgrounds, at the end of the day – I AM CANADIAN. I am NOT what my mom and dad are. Though Canadian-Jamaican is my “background” it’s not what *I* am. I’m proud to be Canadian and if you are going to put my ethnicity on the back of a damn picture, then put what I am. Not what my parents are.

I get upset with this because I understand while the majority of people in Canada are immigrants – yes, even Caucasian people can be immigrants too, there ARE black people that WERE born here. If my mother had me with a Canadian man, I’d have to go back quite far to see if my family hailed from Jamaica or Africa. Hell, maybe my family could’ve come from Germany. Just because my skin colour is brown, doesn’t mean I am automatically from a country that brown skin is predominate in. I mean, come on. It sounds ridiculous right? Then why are people so dumb? And, I’ll be honest, when I speak to someone that IS from Jamaica or Trinidad or Africa and they ask my background and I reply my usual reply they say, “There are black people in Nova Scotia?” HELLO, idiots, do you know anything about Canadian history? Did you pay attention in highschool? Where do you think the freed slaves settled coming into Canada? Do you not know The Underground Railroad came through Nova Scotia? Shit. Nothing bothers me more than ignorant people!

This has happened one too many times. I’ve had people tell my aunt to go back where she came from – and the woman that said this had a thick polish accent! WTF!? We know YOU weren’t born here, so why don’t YOU go back to where YOU came from? But did my aunt say that? No, because my aunt has class.  I’ve been told to go back to Jamaica and I just laugh. I CAN’T go back to a place I’ve never been! I don’t even have a passport (as sad as that is) and I don’t require a citizenship card. WHY? Because I’m a Canadian citizen, asshole. I’m not a landed immigrant, I was born and raised here.

I don’t know. This is more a rant than anything but some people need to get their shit together. Stop being so ignorant and DUMB. It makes no one but yourself look like a complete jackass.

20
May
09

R.I.P. Victoria Stafford

I was truly hoping and praying for a better outcome to Tori’s story. May her tiny soul RIP.

WOODSTOCK, Ont. — Hopes that Victoria Stafford would be found safe and returned to her family were dashed Wednesday with a man charged with the Grade 3 student’s murder and a woman charged with being an accessory.

Michael Thomas Rafferty, 28, and Terri-Lynne McClintic, 18, were arraigned on the charges and abduction charges in a Woodstock, Ont., court. Documents suggest the murder took place on or around April 8, the day the eight-year-old girl known as Tori went missing from outside her school.

The developments were clearly devastating to Tori’s father Rodney Stafford, who said he was awaiting more details from police.

“I don’t know where to go from here,” said Stafford, who was wearing a T-shirt with a picture of Tori that read “Daddy’s Little Girl.”

McClintic, a stocky brunette whose hair was tied in cornrows, also faces charges of helping Rafferty elude authorities.

Rafferty pulled his shirt over his head to cover his face as he was led into the courthouse. He cried during the proceeding, while McClintic was more stoic.

As Rafferty was led by police from the courthouse after his appearance, Tori’s uncle  approached him and spat out an expletive.

The relationship between the two accused was unclear, but there are reports the pair is known to one or both of Tori’s parents.

A search for the girl’s remains was reportedly underway in a rural area of Guelph, about an hour east of Woodstock. A police helicopter was on standby in the region marked with farmers’ fields, ponds and wooded areas.

Police were to hold a media briefing at 3 p.m. with more details.

Reached at a home in Woodstock, a woman who identified herself as McClintic’s grandmother sobbed as she said she was estranged from the woman’s mother Carol and her grandchildren.

“(Carol) was a stripper and she knew the wrong people and she wasn’t treating Terri-Lynne right.”

She said she felt “just horrible” about the arrests.

“It’s breaking my heart.”

From Day 1, volunteers lined up to join the search, plastering storefronts, street lamps and car windshields with flyers describing the petite blond girl with large blue eyes.

Early in the investigation, police released a video capturing the young girl in the company of a mystery woman around the time she disappeared.

That footage, of Tori walking away with a woman in a white puffy coat — seemingly without struggle — was followed by a police composite sketch of a female suspect.

On Easter Sunday, more than 1,000 people attended a candlelight vigil. One week after Tori went missing, others filled scores of purple balloons — her favourite colour — with helium and inserted information scrolls inside, releasing them into the sky at a popular park.

Tori’s mother Tara McDonald began holding daily news conferences outside her home to keep the story in the media spotlight.

 


CP24’s Sue Sgambati in Woodstock says the suspects are known to the parents but they did not know their daughter was the girl they allegedly took.Police sources also tell CP24 that the girl’s abduction has been allegedly viewed as an “opportunistic crime” and was not a random act. They also say the child may have allegedly been sought for “nefarious” purposes.

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20
May
09

Krispy Kreme Divas

This is probably one of the funnier videos Q has done in recent times. He’s pretty frequent with the videos and I laugh at ALL of them – he is SHEER comedy – but this one I had to pause about 8 times in order to get through it. I watched it in class and this dude had me cracking UP! Enjoy this one, folks.




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